Wow Jane......your friend is in a bad spot. Needing surgery when there is no insurance is anyone's worst nightmare. I thought the doctor sounded like they were trying to help.
It reminds me of when my hubby was a grad student......a group of doctors who were sympathetic to his particular course of study gave a discount to student wives who were in need of good OBGYN......much appreciated. I had a baby and was uninsured. They made the experience much less painful for our family. We survived and had wonderful care.
On a personal note.....my gallbladder came out through my belly button! Who knew? I have only small scars from that surgery!
We no longer have dental insurance. I feel much the way you do about her lack of medical insurance. I have long suspected that those with no insurance are charged at a higher rate. The dentist we used to go to used to be kind and compassionate. These days, we feel he is a money grubber. Too bad. He has to advertise on TV for patients now.
Sorry.......similar but different......lack of insurance is not a good place to be.
squabwithfibro