Here are the results of my poll. I know some of you were waiting on the edge of your seats. I got 30 responses over 6 days. 26 people were from the US, 2 people were from Canada, 1 person was from Austrailia, and 1 person's country is unknown. I need to go write the paper now. Did this first because I thought it would help me organize my thoughts.
Do you have a
disability?
Yes: 20
No: 8
Are you for or
against the legalization of prostitution (for everyone)?
For: 14
Against: 3
Undecided: 11
Have you/would you
ever pay for a prostitute?
Yes: 6
No: 17
Maybe: 7
Do you have a moral
objection to prostitution?
Yes: 4
No: 15
Who am I to say?: 11
If you could get government subsidized prostitution
(reduced cost) would you partake in those services?
Yes: 4
No: 21
Maybe: 5
If the government would cover all costs of prostitution
would you partake in those services?
Yes: 5
No: 21
Maybe: 4
It has been proprosed that the government of the
Netherlands pay for prostitution for men with disabilities. I feel this is
sexist. Do you?
Yes: 21
No: 6
Maybe: 3
Do you think that men or women with disabilities feel
more sexually inadequate?
Men: 7
Women: 1
Both: 22
SELECT RESPONSES
Why do you think that some disabled people feel that resorting to prostitution is their only option? (22 people answered)
Lack of social connections and the fact that this is a topic that is not widely discussed.
For many potential sexual partners, a disability seems like an
immediate turn-off in that they look at the disability and see defect
first. I believe that disability makes people confront their own
mortality and that makes them uncomfortable, so the chance for a person
with a disability to express themselves sexually is harder...
They feel insufficiently appealing to get sexual partners voluntarily. it might be too much work.
because able boddied people look apon me with pitty or as a Buddy but rarly as a Person with sexual needs
Resorting to prostitution as an only option is
felt by the disabled for many of the same reasons as the able-bodied
resort to prostitution; availability, low-to-no rejection rate,
discretion, release, and finally, and maybe most importantly, feeling a
bit of passion, warmth, sensuality...feeling like a real man or woman...
What could be done to change these views? (21 people answered)
Legalized prostitution services for the disabled
seems to be the only way to change the situation for the disabled since
you can't force women to be with men they don't find sexually
attractive.
If you want crips to have a higher self-esteem
and to feel sexier, then get the question to Madison Ave add companies
and to Hollywood. It's all about marketing and messaging.
Happy, confident people are just sexier...
Self help group, counseling, meeting other disabled individuals who changed their lives.
EDUCATION , SEX IS NOT ONLY ABOUT ORGASMS SEX CAN BE EXPRESSED IN MANY DIFFERENT WAYS!
Disability education for the able. Exposure to
disabled people. I love to answer questions from children, they're just
curious. I will give rides in my power chair with their parent's
permission.
If I knew I would do it!!
I think peoples views of disabled needs to change. Disabled people have
the same sexual wants and needs as any able bodied person.
Old-fashioned, sexist, conservative views will
never change, until this country catches up with, say, European views
on sexuality, prostitution; and then maybe these views WILL change, for
the better for all of us.
Is there anything else I forgot to address? Comment here. (12 people answered)
The proposed dutch law is sexist, but it is also discriminatory. There
are plenty of able bodied people who find it difficult to form romantic
relationships - why are only the disabled singled out for financial
assistance.
I would separate those disabled from birth and those disabled in an
accident in your study. Those disabled later in life generally have
developed normal social skills which greatly help them in relations
with other people, while the disabled since birth usually have been
ostracized during their youth and also protected by their parents and
thus have not had a very good chance to develop the proper social
skills necessary to win friends and influence people.
To me, prostitution is just another form of social work. (that one cracked me up!)
